i HAVE A VERY STRONG FEELING HERE sorry caps lock on. If we are together then its a we decicion. With my dog if someone placed him outside they may change places very fast. also if someone came into MY house they would have to go by the rules of the house. if you wife or girlfriend does not see then,for me it would be time to go and find a place where my dog an I can live. I had to deal with something like this in i think 93 or 94 I finally told them I do not want to hear why you can not I want to her how and what you are doing to acomplese this. Meracuously the next week they were able to get ther own place.