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This is how I would casually bring the other girl up:
First, make small talk...Then, I would say something like, "Oohhhh, so I saw your girl with you the other day"***lol & giggle***...Just make it seem like you're kinda poking fun at him...Bring it up casually...
I would hope he isn't stupid enough to ask you out and have a girlfriend that comes over.....
Edit: Men do not always initiate contact..You have no idea how many times I'be been out, where ever, and a guy will stare me down but not say anything to me or approach me...I don't know why they do this, but they do it...Believe it or not, men can be intimidated by women...I've had someone admit to me that they were intimidated by me which is why they didn't say much around me....And I was shocked because he is a very attractive guy...Men don't always have to be the ones doing the approaching...And they get intimidated just like we do...
Give him a chance...Him asking you for a ride could have been him initiating the opportunity to ask you out...If you are both shy, you two will never get anywhere because the other will always be scared to say something...Step out of your shell...If he has showed interest in you, and you are interested in him, girl you better go get him...LOL...I used to be shy...And let me tell you, I got tired of saying "What if" when he came to guys...Because I was always scared to approach them..The worst that they can do is reject you...9 times outta ten a man will not reject you if he is single and already expressed interest in you...Private message me if I can help further...
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