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I don't know how old you are, but I say let the relationship go...After reading your other posts in regards to this, I say let him go...Ok, so you wait 2 years, what happens when the 2 years are up and he changes his mind or needs more time? You just said that you don't want to settle...And I don't think that you should...I say end it, cut it all off, sex included... Your biological clock is ticking....Don't waste years on a "what if"...
I would not wait for him...His answers don't sound too stable/secure...Think about it...He has the perfect set up....He wants to continue getting the goods from you, and everything else you provide, with no strings or no one to answer to in terms of a relationship...He wants to benifits of a relationship without having the title or having anyone to answer to...It's a red flag that he won't compromise...
I think you got it right when you said that this all started off on the wrong foot...Friends with benifits...When you commit to friends with benifits, keep it just at that...Do not catch feelings...This happens waaaaayyyy too much...The woman is cool with the arrangement, but somewhere in between time, someone is going to catch feelings if the lines are crossed...And it's mostly the woman...Again, I would let this dude go...For real...He is playing games...I don't need to know or meet him to know that...From the things he is saying and the way he is acting...The whole emotional distance that you referred to is another big red flag...Cut it off.
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