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Dec 27, 2011, 04:50 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Well, I can almost guarantee that if you keep jumping down his throat over stuff like that, it WILL ruin the relationship. 
It sounds like you have trust issues -- you don't TRUST that he loves you enough. You may mistrust that he's not doing what he SAYS he's going to do. Without trust in a relationship, you have nothing.
Has he ever done anything to make you mistrust him? If he hasn't, you really don't have anything to worry about. If this is the main issue in your fights -- his wanting/needing to do something without you at times --- I'd say you have it pretty darn good! LOL
You would probably benefit from some counseling to help you with your trust issues -- or perhaps your feelings of abandonment? You sure want to get this resolved before marriage!
I wish you the very best. Take care & God bless. Hugs, Lee
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