(((((((((((((((darkeyes & larry))))))))))))))))))). What a noble thing you are both doing, whether it is behind the scenes or holding their hands, you should be commended. A lot of lives have changed over the fact that children have had compassion to care for parents that were less than that when the children were growing up. My father was not a very nice man at times when I was growing up but no one else will take care of him but me if he ever needs it. I love him, as I know you both do your parents. That ability to care for someone who was probably not given the proper care when they were growing up can make all the difference in their afterlife Heaven Please take care of yourselves.