WOW! Candybear, we can do ANYTHING for a short period of time...as long as we have a plan for change. I think you had already begun that plan before you moved Eat the food...LOTS of the food... don't go hungry, even if you don't like the food as much. (Can't believe you said the MC word.lol)

Family are something, aren't they? LOL I have a relative who was upset with one of the decisions I made for our mother... berating me, or trying to (I didn't accept it) etc. THEN not two paragraphs later she says... but if she (mom) comes to live with ME she won't be allowed to... (exactly what I had decided to not allow mom to...)

Some ppl can't stand back and look at themselves and their own actions, they only see other ppl's...imo.

Ok... once you're settled, let me know all the details on the REST of your life AFTER "sister's"