Me and my girlfriend of 4 yrs broke up 3 months ago, and I am still having a really hard time with it. I did good with it at first, then I found some things out and got really depressed over the break up. I know now that we were not ment to be together, but I still have days where I can't stop thinking about her and all the good times we had. Can anyone give me some advice on how to get over this and back to a happy and normal life.