My t is still gone.... Going on five months now

I dont know if the sub T is working out. Nice enough. But he seems to be completely opposite of what my T teaches me. He knows DID stuff ok. But i dont know ... Maybe i shouldnt waste my money. But then we'd never have someone to talk to?
I dont care enough yet after only 3 weeks to bring this up with him. I dont know. OUR T just needs to come home!!! (hopefully january)