I have been depressed for so long that I don't even know what it is like to be happy. I have been depressed for over 9 years, and when I want to talk to either my husband or my best friend or even family, their answer to it is, "just snap out of it", they just don't know that I can't just snap out of it. meds or talking to a dr don't help. I just wish that I could find someone that understands what I'm going through. If it was just that simple to snap out of it, I would of done it along time ago. I hate feeling like.....depressed. I just feel like noone knows what I'm going through. that's why I'm here.