Candy,
I love your writing, although the main point is that you are getting things done and should be able to rest up for a while - I hope so.
Thinking about your sister's wholefood thing made me giggle. I once stayed with some diety type people for a weekend and after two days I started to crack. I said to them, look I just have to have a biscuit with my tea, I can't go any longer without biscuits!
They said that they had some 'jammy dodgers' hidden away for the children and they let me have two of them. God - they were nice! I felt so naughty, but normal too.
I guess you'll have to get a secret stash of your favourites and hide them away!
Good thoughts, M