i am sure he does love you. it took a long time for my T to outright say she loves me. she'd evade saying more than fondness or care for a long time. i could tell it was purposeful. she said she feels a form a love. she said she felt love. then she signed a couple emails "with love." next when i asked her questions like "if I robbed a bank and killed someone would you still love me?" or "will you always be there for me and love me?" she would say yes. finally one session when i was upset about a difficult relationship and its loss, i asked "but you still love me right?" she replied, "i love you, Crazy." She didn't feel comfortable saying she loved me until after MANY sessions and much time spent together.
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