Hi All!

I've been married for about 4 years now.
I've been trying to convince my husband to get another job.
He's been working on the same job for over 7 years
and he's too scared to change. He said he's not scared and he said he will try to find other opportunity but he never do anything much about it.
We are currently live in hong kong since my husband is from hong kong and he doesn't want to move out from hong kong .
We stayed really close to his family.
His salary is almost half of my salary and It's hard to find a job for me since I don't speak the language but it will be easier for him since he can speak the language and speak english as well.
His salary is considered quite low and he doesn't get salary raised for more than 7 years.
I've been lay off one time because company restructuring and my current company will do lay off too since my current company is loosing money.
We've been arguing a lot since my husband keep promising he will move on but he never do anything about it.
And the other thing why we keep arguing is because our roof apartment keep leaking and cracking. Moreover, every three months there is a fire in our apartment building or the apartment beside us.
My husband doesn't even want to move out but he keep saying he will.
And plus he borrowed money from the bank using our apartment as a guarantee so he can play stock.
Then he's loosing money on stock.
I asked him what is your plan in the future.
He said he just want to wait for stock market to rebounce.
So he's been lying to me about he will move on and everything.
And furthermore he use my saving to invest it on stock and lost.
He convince me that he will earn a lot but he didn't instead he's loosing
I lend him my saving because i thought at least he will want to move on someday
What do you think i should do ?
The more i push him the more he's angry and now he refuse to talk to me