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Originally Posted by treehouse
Will you be just as happy with neither?
I DO think it's totally fine to ask. No matter WHAT the answer, yes, or no, or maybe. EVERYTHING that happens in therapy matters, and teaches us something about ourselves. T and I played Uno once in session, which seemed like a happy, fun thing, and led to a panicked phone call between sessions! You just never know what therapy will bring up!
(sorry! for all of my PC-use, I still don't know how to break quotes up in a post, so this is a continuation of my previous post!)
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Sorry, I didn't catch this reply last night Tree, but that might be a good thing. Everything looks a bit different after a good night's sleep. This morning, I have an unusual sense of peace about the whole thing. I'm not used to having peace about a situation such as this (or anything for that matter
)! When I want something, I usually WANT it and I WANT it
RIGHTNOW!!! And if I don't get it:
However, this is my perspective this morning: I'm going to ask. I will be happy whatever the answer. If the answer is absolutely, unequivocally, "no",
what will change? Absolutely nothing!! I will continue to have the same relationship with her that I have now and that relationship is pretty awesome!! I am healing!! I feel like I've had a breakthrough in the way I think! I am assured I WILL be okay
no matter what! 
And that, friends, is freeing!