Stopdog, I cannot imagine either what your current therapy is like, what it is for, or what you are expecting from therapy. T's are a "third" party to us, reflect ourselves back to ourselves so we can better seen and figure out our problems and how we want to solve them. They don't tell us how to solve them or ask any particular line of questions that magically helps us.

If you are not seeing the progress you want to see with a T, then you have to decide you want to change T's. If you see several T's with the same results each time, then it is probable that the problem of not moving forward lies in you. Interactions with another are not something you can read about to understand, you have to "do" it and experience it. If you are not able to, for whatever reason, there isn't anything someone else can do for you, they cannot get inside you and "make" you understand, make you shift your focus or perceptions so you see things the way another person might.

Going to a "specialist", they can only help you while you are there, they cannot comment or know what is going on in any other relationship, even another relationship with a T, because they are not part of that relationship. At best, they would only have your perceptions and story and, if that is where your problems are, what do they have? You would still be where you were in the first place.