I haven't read the book (just the wikipedia entry about it, although I think I recognized the title of the book that was written in the 60's).

I try very hard, although I know I don't always succeed, to not play any games. I *think* the idea behind the game-playing analysis is that people "play" these games at a subconscious level, not necessarily deliberately and with the intent of playing them or hurting another.

I think that the majority of postings here, even the overwhelming majority, are by people who are honestly trying to support other people the best way they know how. That doesn't always mean cheerleading, or failing to challenge, but I see most people as trying to speak to what it has been like for them in an attempt to empathize, provide insight, or encourage others.

Anne