Hey DamienV,

I'm trans myself, and went through the process of transition, starting at 20. I'm 28 now. I know it's hard to deal with when you're under your parents' thumb (my parents were transphobic too), but you gotta hang in there. If you need, find small things you can do to make a step in the right direction. Simple things like growing out your hair, or practicing your voice (the latter is one of the hardest part of transition anyway, but if you do, you'll be very ready when the time is right to go out there and be yourself). One day you'll be independent, and you'll be ready to start your transition then.

Feel free to PM me for support, or if you have any questions.