You cannot help hubby till he is ready.
You can help yourself if you are ready! You must be ready to admit that alcohol is causing a problem in YOUR life. There is always alcoholics annonymous(AA). They can be found on the web or your phone book. There are also on-line meetings. Nothing beats though a meeting of real people with problems. The on-line meetings can be done when you have some sobriety.
Are you really ready to give up drinking....then call the ph # for AA and find the nearest meeting and go!!!. Your hubby will go when he is ready. Do not ask him to go,but simply tell him where you are going. He can then make his own choice!
You have a New Year,a new start ..."today is the first day of the rest of your life"........we can always begin again.
With serenity;
Dee
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Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.
Oscar Wilde
Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich
The road to hell is paved with good intentions.
"And psychology has once again proved itself the doofus of the sciences" Sheldon Cooper
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