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Originally Posted by stumpy
ruby...
carla does NOT have to like you. honestly no one HAS to like you. your family should but that doesn;t even always happen...
ok..you are 22...an adult...some of the stuff you right about would make me not like you at work..or out of work. some of the stuff it it continued would make me want to notify the police.
you write you have left college..not of your own choice. not a good thing.
you are 22. this may sound harsh...but grow up. do you see a therapist? unless you are rich, you need to work to support yourself. college heklps you get better jobs. carla & her types be damned. you have to learn how to act like a mature 22 year old. not like an out of control kid not getting their way.
someone will get angry & call the police at one point...trust me...do you want to go to jail over someone like carla? maybe as a young kid this was ok but now you are an adult...please get a therapist to help you so you can get your life on track & move on. you can only lose so many jobs before no one will hire you anyplace & then you are really in a bad place...
& yeah there will always be people who won;'t be your friend...oh well...like i said you can not force someone to like you...& the stuff you post on facebook...it's not private...when you apply for a job in the future other employers can go back & look at what you wrote & see it...not something you want floating around on the internet.
i wish you luck. i wish you a future.
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I have been seeing a therapist for 3 years now, ever since I involuntarily left college. I guess I'm just starting to make a dent in my probs lol.