I have mostly questions, not answers. Wrestling with addiction myself, I know that it's not at all a good feeling to be addicted to anything, even something like pot. Have you ever been at all concerned about the long-term effects of pot? I guess it can have radically different effects on people but a friend of mine who has smoked since high school has now a very fuzzy memory of things-not good; but you are obviously high-performing and your work apparently unaffected by the habit.

You have detailed your good relationship with your husband; does he have anything negative to say about your pot habit?

I had thought you were still on the ADHD meds but that's not the case, eh? It's not entirely clear why quitting pot is a prerequisite for those meds; is the effect blunted by pot or what is the rationale behind it? Does your doc simply believe that continued pot use is affecting your concentration? Have you felt that to be the case ever, or the reverse? Sounds like it's not helping you at the moment. In which case, is it not wise to take the doc's suggestion-and possibly also get some anti-craving meds for what you suspect will be an increased desire to resort to alcohol? Sorry I'm not much help but I"m hoping a pragmatic solution will suggest itself.