I went through something similar. At 28 years of age I found out I had PID and was basically called a liar when I was said I was a virgin. I shortly later found out I had ovarian and endometrial cancer, but it is sad. Everyone has their own value systems and just because mine (wait until I'm married) is so against what the majority of the culture believes, I must have been lying. I later found out there are all kinds of reasons you can have PID like wiping wrong or leaving a tampon in too long etc.(and those of us with depression know it sometimes is hard to take care of ourselves, a shower can seem like a lot of work etc) Anyway you aren't alone lots of opinionated people out there.