Thanks all for the reply.
I did ask him when he's going to apply for a job and he promise me that he will do it after christmas or after june or after certain time but he never did.
It's he doesn't want to do anything and just expect me to survive by myself in hong kong even i got lay off many times and it's very difficult for me to find a job. Moreover, he really think he's not wrong and he think i don't make sense. He never thought that he's really scared . He think he's a very very brave man compare to other man.
His ego is so big he doesn't dare to do anything
Really I 'm so tired that i need to go through culture shock and dealing my in law that is so demanding and dealing with my husband and loosing a job and probably loosing the place we live.
Sometime i think i cannot handle it anymore