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Originally Posted by Perna
Sometimes it is hard to match up our dreams of other people (expensive, nicely wrapped presents) and reality of them (two unwrapped boxes from last year :-) I have had similar instances with my stepsister and her large family who I only see Christmas every year. I keep inviting them out to my place during the summer (I live on the water, have a boat, etc.) and no one shows but they sound so sincere each year with the, "Yeah! That sounds great!"
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Oh my goodness, if someone invited me to such a place, I would be there like, every chance I could! And I would provide goodies to eat! Idk, I find this with people a LOT. I invite people for coffee and whatnot all the time and I hear, "Oh, that would be so
fun!! We should
totally do it." People are kind of lazy and stuck in their own comfort zones. I don't think it's totally personal in most cases; I just think people have, in general, lost the desire to reach out to each other. Sad, really, but true.