You are still you but who can see you? Get the hobbies back, pick something(s) to be interested in out there where there are other people doing the same thing, you can't find Mr. Right one person at a time? You have to look through crowds and be attractive in what you are doing (not necessarily how you look, yes, the initial impression can help but it's just the initial impression -- look at Susan Boyle with her passion for singing).

I was 39 when I married, 34 when I met Mr. Right; I know/knew very well how you feel The couch corner cannot help you? Figure out what projects to start, take a class at a local college or rec center, the Winter semester is getting ready to start; join an interest group, a reading group, a support group, a woman's group, a new job with new people (that's how I met my husband).