I'm on a time constraint @ work...I cannot give the reply I want right now but I will reply tomorrow...But for Peter's sake PLEASE don't do marriage counseling...I had to come in here and said that...DO NOT...This whole situation, counseling is not going to help...Therapy isn't always the answer...Certainly not in this case...This dude put his hands on her MULTIPLE times...He is abusing not only her but her child and will soon be abusing the one on the way...It's abuse for the child because he is doing this in front of the baby...That will mess his (the child's)head up..It's emotional abuse...Marriage counseling ain't gonna help his temper...He needs INDIVIDUAL counseling for someone to help him work with those problems he has going on...I will be back to give more of an elaborate response...
Again, I'm not trying to offend anyone on here, but I can't rock with that answer of counseling...This dude needs to do counseling on his own...She can't stand him...There is no changing that...Marriage counseling isn't going to change how she feels...
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