Hey, Patty! I hope you have the loveliest New Year's and a wonderful 2012! Sounds like you've been spending Christmas with the wrong people. There's that thing about Christmas, it's hard to get beyond passing it with your blood, in both senses of the word. Promise me, next Christmas you'll pick people who love you to spend it with. Ah, family! Some of them are special, but most of them are not. You have many, many friends around the world here on PC, whose thoughts and wishes are with you not only on Christmas and New Year's, but all the time. Take good care! Ygrec