Dear Adalissa,

I have learned some things in the horribly long time I have had to be here. none,
from my family, unless it was "you're in this boat on your own".

What I learned, is that each of us, no matter who we get advice from, or
how wise they are, we each must live with our own actions or lack of actions"

If someone gives us advice, and we follow it, if it be good or bad, We, the individual
must square with the results.". it is almost never the sage or fool who told us stuff.

There are no, "well, so and so told me to do it this way.".

If you feel your sister can handle it and be calm and mature enough to
grow from your sharing >your< truth, then you will gain so much. If she is
the type of person you feel will not receive this well, then you should
do what you must and feel best for you.

best of luck.

SW