I'm gonna be on pc all night more than likely until I leave. He's got me in a very uncomfortable state right now. Really edgy and uncomfortable. It couldn't be happening at a worst time. Seems like triggers are everywhere lately. Ugh.
You're right I do need to stand up for myself in a more serious tone. I do tell him no with a small forced smile trying to do my job. Be courteous and don't make the guest feel they are not welcome. But he is not welcome in that way. He does not need to touch me, I have a rather large desk I stand behind that helps me to feel safe, far away from their touch. But he reaches over the desk. He pokes, he touches my hands... He is a CREEP and it's really getting to me. The creeps always do. They always really freak me out. And here he is again. I wish he would just leave already....
There are regulars here. A lot of older men who remind me of this same man and they wont stop either. They always come here. I've stood up to a couple and they seemed to get the hint for a day or two but when they come back they are right back to their games and it's getting old. I really need to be out of customer service. Perhaps I should be a telemarketer.
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I'd lock my hands behind my head, I'd cover my heart and hit the deck, I'd brace myself for the impact if I were you.
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