Welcome and thanks for sharing your concerns.

"Snap out of it" is one of the most irritating responses I received when I first sunk into depression. Made me want to SCREAM.

Those who have never experienced depression can never truly understand what it is. I hope you will see your doctor, possibly get an anti-depressant and also get some counseling.

Once you have started to take care of yourself, you will have a chance to bring your family in and find ways to help them understand.

I wish you the best.