Have you asked each of the people ;who are "not on your side",for a clear explanation of why they do not support your views on this situation?I have to really wonder why it is that multiple persons witness this profanity,put downs,sarcastic comments and ridicule,and all appear;in your view,to be unsupportive toward you.Have you asked them?Do they fear him?I mean what is their position in this?If you say "My husband,whom I dearly love….",there is a reason why you feel this love for your husband,I mean he obviously makes you feel loved.So begin with him.Ask him if the two of you can go for a meal away from the house in order to chat about this.Ask what his feelings and reasonings are.Ask him if he has any idea why you are not being defended or supported in this by the others in your circle of family/friends,it really sounds as if there is a lot which is not divulged here for consideration.I am so sorry that you are feeling traumatized,unsupported,and as if you must walk on eggshells.I will look for your replies.Hugs.