It is such a personal decision. I think since you just said you desparately want another child then more power to you, Momma! We are absolutely capable of being loving parents even though we have this bipolar, and you have a loving, supportive, committed partner, that is great. I for one am all for marching to the beat of a different drum. Believe in yourself and listen to heart and head, both are right.

Two of my three children have bipolar - they are both in their teens. No I didn't know both father and I had bipolar at the time, but I really wish I did - because I would've been better prepared to support my kids through the rough times especially through the public school system. It continues to be trying day in day out, and yes they act crazier than other kids, both have tried to hurt themselves, both have had drug problems, both have been hospitalized. Even though I'm depressed right now, and having trouble seeing much good in the world, I know in my heart that this is my path. Nothing would have stopped me from having them, they are precious gifts to me and to this world.