Thank you both for responding!

Irreplaceable, I know what you mean, people tell me that all the time and I see it now but we were friends for a year up until my ex started dating and then everything changed. I guess it becomes more difficult once a third party is involved but it is just hard to let go of someone you spend so many years with, specially when they are willing to be friends. But yeah, I need to move on.

Gimmeice, yeah right now we are taking some time apart until I fell ok with my ex dating someone else... Hopefully it will work out in the future although right now it hurts a lot.

Happy new years to both of you, hopefully the upcoming year will be better