I think the best thing you can do for you daughter is let her know that you are there for her. Every time I have seen someone go in and try to fix a situation like this it has only backfired on them and the people involved.
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Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another: "What! You, too? Thought I was the only one." C.S. Lewis
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