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Originally Posted by gimmeice
((((((( Seeker ))))))))
I think it was very strong of you to be able to share your feelings with your sister, that takes a lot of bravery. Her response to your feelings was wrong. I hope things work out for you and your sister. 
Just ignoring your feelings would not have solved anything, feelings have a way of coming back up to the surface. |
Thank you, dear Gimmeice.
Actually, my "inner voice" was whispering to me to not even go to sister's for Christmas Eve. Her invitation to me was last minute, and kind of backhanded, like..."we have so and so here, and we're going to this church event later, but if you want to come," etc.
My confronting sister was not so much "strong" as just plain hurt and exasperated.