Hello Seeker1950, your
first post sounds a little "borderline personality' where you
are sharing your 'truth' and then being told that sharing your
truth and desire to not feel so minimalized, then you agree with
the treatment from said person of insensitivity, that you were
in the wrong to be even 'communicating.'

your right move is to choose the best company for you and
forget the obligations of 'genetics' like family.

SW