((((((Seeker))))))

I don't think your sister is paying attention in Church. Most faiths work on love and communication, understanding, and respect for others. It sounds to me that it is more of a political agenda to her.

However, there is one other possibility. You could join her church and visit with the Minister and discuss your issues with your sister, see what he says. Usually there are family counceling services in these churches. You don't have to let your sister know anything ahead of time. You could talk to the Minister/pastor whatever and see what he/she says. I did get some help from a minister once and though he didn't have all my answers for me, he was very helpful.

Open Eyes