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Originally Posted by skysblue
I can relate to this. I am a super 'organizer'. I want lists, plans, outlines, step by step instructions, target dates and on and on.
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BUT, I've made progress and IT MAKES NO SENSE. I don't understand how or why. Like T has said, 'it's not linear and sometimes there are changes we cannot understand." It's a somewhat But somehow or another 'talk therapy' is working for me.
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Thank you for the sharing. I do appreciate it.
The funny thing is
I am actually not super organized, I am barely organized at all. I never make lists, or outlines or plans etc. I can be goal oriented, but not always. I have some perfectionistic tendencies. I do very much value thinking over feeling. I certainly am goal oriented here. I do not want to sit and chat with some stranger who I am paying a fortune to without some discernable reason. And I hate that no one can explain something they are telling me to trust. I think there is really no such thing as "the process" - it is just a phrase they teach them to use because they do not know what they are really doing.
I am very glad it is working for you.