Thread: first trip to T
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Old Dec 30, 2011, 09:47 PM
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Originally Posted by TheBunnyWithin View Post
After 8 months, I'm still working on opening up. It doesn't mean I haven't opened up already, but there are degrees of openness. Also, it takes a while to decide whether to trust a T or not - or how much. Are they judgmental? Like anyone, it takes a while to get to know them and feel comfortable. Congratulations on taking the first step and making that first appt. I'm glad your first impression of her was good - that's important.
oh wow, 8 months? I guess that's reasonable though depending on the situation. I've only ever told one person about why I decided to go to T. I had no problem telling her, but it was also a conversation I had with her online, not face to face. I think face to face makes me more hesitant. The person I told is also a T but we were talking on a friend level, nothing more and even though she was completely honest with me, she responded like she was talking to a friend, not like i'm a patient. so we'll see how next week goes!