This is my first and only T - to be honest my head wasn't in a good place when I was looking for one so I can't remember the details of how I found him. Looking back even if my head had been clearer, I would have choosen to go to see him. On his website he details the problems he is able to work with and I could relate to them.

Although I struggle to be open with him, I also know the potential is there - it just feels that he knows me / gets me / can see beyond the smoke screens and it just feels right (mostly).

I do not really have anyone really to compare him with - I did a few couple sessions before my divorce with 3 different therapists and had a bad experience in all of them.

So for me, I feel reassured that I won't freak him too much with my specific problems and I feel that he knows stuff, what is going on for me without me having to say too much.

Good luck in finding someone who you can work with - Soup