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Old Dec 31, 2011, 03:57 PM
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Originally Posted by vanessaG View Post
I'm lying about how I'm feeling and you think I'm fine?
No, just that you don't see yourself as positively as how others see you, as healthier than you think!

We all have known people who sincerely thought they were sick/dying, had this or that illness, and didn't? It is not bad or wrong to think these things but do you want to feel sick/dying/ill or would you rather feel you were healthy? I'd rather have the feeling of being healthy? That is what you are going to T for, isn't it? Well, part of it is that, yes, you have problems but another part of it is that your problems can be worked on and you have the ability to do that; that's healthy! Working on your problems as you are and yet insisting, "I have problems, I can't solve them!" is not seeing that you are working on them, you are solving them!
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Thanks for this!
ECHOES, vanessaG