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Originally Posted by vanessaG
I'm lying about how I'm feeling and you think I'm fine?
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No, just that you don't see yourself as positively as how others see you, as healthier than you think!
We all have known people who sincerely thought they were sick/dying, had this or that illness, and didn't? It is not bad or wrong to think these things but do you want to feel sick/dying/ill or would you rather feel you were healthy? I'd rather have the feeling of being healthy? That is what you are going to T for, isn't it? Well, part of it is that, yes, you have problems but another part of it is that your problems can be worked on and you have the ability to do that; that's healthy! Working on your problems as you are and yet insisting, "I have problems, I can't solve them!" is not seeing that you are working on them, you are solving them!