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Originally Posted by Miracle1986
How did you find your current T?
Did you have to go to several before you found a good match?
How long does it take to realize they are (or aren't) a good match?
In your opinion, what qualities are important for a T to have?
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1. internet search - she was about the right age, the right gender, in the right geographic area, and some other stuff on web that seemed not inapplicable to me
2. I have stayed with this one but gone to see about 15 or so others to see if there was a better match. Some I found were much worse for me and the others about the same as the one I was seeing. This one is my third try at therapy (about one time a decade).
3. The second one I tried about 15 years ago was horrible and I only went about 6-8 times before quitting.
4. I want one who is not real emotive, not particularly warm, will stay gone from me if I quit and away from me physically in the office, no stuffed animals and who does not try to talk me out of quitting. I would like one who had some concept of a plan.