How did you find your current T?

I looked on my insurance company's website and looked at several profiles. One really stood out to me, and even though he was booked for two months, I decided it was worth waiting.

Did you have to go to several before you found a good match?

I briefly saw a marriage counselor with my dh, and he just did not work for me. But I knew my current T was going to work right away.

How long does it take to realize they are (or aren't) a good match?

It took me two sessions with marriage T.

In your opinion, what qualities are important for a T to have?

I need someone who responds to me and really listens to what I have to say. I need someone who manages the time well and pushes me out of my comfort zone a little. I need someone with firm boundaries (I wouldn't do as well with a T who emailed and texted between sessions, but that is just me - I would become way too dependent on that person).