....and here she comes back with the tail between her legs. I'm such a sad person! Well, I can't leave you after all... I care too much for so many of you, to really leave. Sorry, if I seem like a drama queen... I'm really not! I'm just confused...and hurt.
Love you!

I wish we all could think a bit more about what we're writing to each other here in PC.

"...the tongue is like a fire that can destroy a forest."
"...the calmness of the tongue can be a "tree of life". On the other hand a distortion in it can mean "a breaking down in the spirits"; death and life are in its power."
"A mild tongue itself can break a bone", if a person is hard like bone he or she might soften by a mild answer and break down the hardness.
This was taken from The Bible