How did you find your current T?
Well... within a few months time... T1 saw me twice then referred me to T2, who saw me twice then got promoted and left the T title behind (whatever that means), and then I got set up with T3, who is now my current T for about a month now..

Did you have to go to several before you found a good match?
In my life, I have only found 3 who I trusted... and one of those three is my current T.
I have had WAY TOOO MANY T's too really count, it's about like schools i've been in. I quit counting after a certain time.

How long does it take to realize they are (or aren't) a good match?
Usually the first hour, but even if they aren't, I still try. And just act "as if" they were a good match...

In your opinion, what qualities are important for a T to have?
Empathy, compassion, honesty, trustworthy, patience, stability, good at listening, and advice, pretty much the qualities that are important are those that we can't find in our life elsewhere... That we so despritely seek.