Rap,

Be careful . . . don't beat yourself up because of her "shock therapy" technique or whatever she wants to call it. If what she says to you, as a therapist, makes you feel bad about yourself - that's not right.

Thank you for explaining "2x4" and it's a bad idea. There are other ways of getting the point across. Would you do that to your kids when they don't understand something? It doesn't matter who is right and who is wrong - it's a joint effort to heal. They are supposed to be facilitators - not bashers.

Hugs,
Songbird