I'm not sure what everyone means when they tell me I'm a cold person, but I've been told that by more than a handful of people over the years. I've always had a problem showing/stating my emotions, and I'm assuming it has to do with that. I'm a pretty uptight stick-in-the-mud, and I don't want to be. I found an article on Psychology Today that fits me very well (different circumstances regarding the maternal attachment stuff though), but I'm not sure what to do with the information.

I guess I'm not really asking a question here, mostly just venting. Not sure how to go about making the changes I need to make in my life (or what those changes are).