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Originally Posted by SoupDragon
I read somewhere on the internet that learning to trust and work to resolve problems with your T and then having to say goodbye is such an important thing to be able to do - it will prevent dependent relationships in the future and set us free from those things that can bind us to unhealthy relationships. In addition we will all face bereavement from close friends / family at some point in our lives and learning to deal with the "loss" of the relationship with T can be a useful thing to explore and learn to cope with. It may be a really sad thing to have to do, but it will still be a useful part of our therapy journey.
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Thanks Soup and happy New Year to you too! At this point I don't mind having to say goodbye as much. I'm stuck on the fact that she was wishy-washy about her answer. Either she should have known her boundary before I asked or if she changed her mind, tell me why. I have told her numerous times I deal better with the blunt truth. I don't deal well with people dancing around an issue.
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Originally Posted by SoupDragon
I think your short term goals sound great and many of them have inspired me.
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I'm glad to hear that! I plan to stick by my guns this year!
