sympathy goes out to wi_fighter, hugs!
I'm quite lost as i havent been around but summerizing some of the threads, someone did something very mean

and im sorry for there being people on this earth who are evil
on the other note, this has helped the site admin realize that the site needs to be updated and that there needs to be more security features to protect members, and the saddest thing is in order to learn from these mistakes and the stupidity of one or more individuals a precious family had to suffer.
I hope the person gets caught, and realizes that what goes around comes around, karma will work on your side wi_fighter, i'm sure of it.
i can now see everyone is eyeing everyone wondering who the culprit was, and i hope that everyone remembers, that we are suppost to be a team to support each other here, which is why the person(s) must be caught ASAP!