i come from a family with a verbally abusive father and she is adopted so it is understandable that we are detached to some degree but she confueses the mess out of me i am her first serious boyfriend, she is introducing me to family and friends, talking about marriage and kids and living together and even was going to give up her dream so we could stay together but heres where things get sketchy, she will go days without talking to me, (usually about 3 days.) and then she will talk to me out of the blue ans act like everything is fine. she doesnt do this very often, usually when she is having issues with her family but when she does it always worries me. ill see that she is updating her facebook from her phone so i know she is getting my messages, just not responding. thats where im confused, if someone obviously means that much to you why wouldnt you talk to them? i know shes got alot going on in her life right now (our senior year, grandfather has cancer, family issues etc) ive talked to her about it before and she said she doesnt mean to ignore me its just that when she gets a chance to talk she forgets to reply to whatever form of communication i used, which i understand because im the same way, but it always seems like she has time for her friends. i dont know what to make of it, i know i mean the world to her but why does she do that?