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Originally Posted by Miracle1986
How did you find your current T?
Did you have to go to several before you found a good match?
How long does it take to realize they are (or aren't) a good match?
In your opinion, what qualities are important for a T to have?
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I was "forced" to see my T. (court order, long story). I did not have a say on who I saw. I actualy "hated" my T, well that was before I had met him. On my first visit, T said something I had never heard before, that he was on my side, there for me and we would work on what was best for me
. It still took a while for me to trust T, but it has been over 2.5 yrs total and I would not trade T for anything. (was only ordered to see him 6mos and when that was over, I just stayed.)
I have seen a few others before him, and I could not stand them, it was almost instantly. I tend to be judgemental at times...
Good qualities for me are: compassionate, understanding, insightful, looks past my bs
to see the real me, careing and patient.