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Old Jan 01, 2012, 11:17 PM
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Originally Posted by disturbedboy View Post
hi, am writing this thread coz I knw I will get some sincere advices, here's my problem.. I have been in a serious relationship with my gf for nearly 3 yrs now.. at z start of our relationship, everything was fine.. we were in two diff countries but she used to stay wiz me a lot and want me a lot too.. nw am bak in my country but she has changed.. I am always wantng her but I rialy hav to get lucky for her to want me..maybe once in two months.. I feel like an immature sex freak bf.. I mean, is it bad to want ur gf every day? I feel really dejected, she nearly doesnt hav timw for me bcoz she has to study, help her mother,father.. she always has something to do.. is it bad to want ur gf to want u? I feel the need of being appreciated.. my body yearns for someone to touch me.. to make love to me n to make me hers.. is it too much to ask? I also hav a v.high sexual desire and I hav to watch porn n masturbate nearly everyday. which makes me feel really bad n pathetic... am so fed up.. am at a point where am thinking zat I lack something n am really really pathetic.. please giv me some advices...
thanks.
I'll bet you are young, which means sex is more of a body function to you right now than an intimacy function. Sounds like your girlfriend is ready for the next step of intimacy in being seen as a person with heart and soul instead of an "object of your lustful affection."

The object of masturbation is ejaculation; however, the object of a love relationship is intimacy in addition to climax. When you learn how to make love with your heart, not just your organ, you will have truly "arrived" at what most women want for a long haul relationship. SQ
Thanks for this!
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